My neighbor is driving me crazy. I am so mad at her. She called me up the other day and told me I was the worst neighbor because I don't mow often enough. I am not able to take care of the lawn myself and depend on others for help. Since my friends are volunteers, I don't feel that I can pressure them. I am just grateful when they can help me by mowing. My neighbor even went as far as to threaten me if I didn't do what she wanted. How can I resolve this?

There has been a very serious ethics problem with one of our clients. I want to be caring and consid- erate of this person’s very difficult life, but at the same time I have to think about my responsibilities to the integrity of our business. I have to make a very tough decision on Monday morning, and I am losing sleep over this. Can the Dharma help?

My primary focus is to work with you to discover a way to release your discomfort around your family dynamics. First, I want to tell you that I can easily see your deep compassion for your family members and their suffering. That is your Buddha-Nature coming through.